The Real Secret of the World’s Happiest Country: MacGyver

MacGyverPerhaps I should explain myself.

Years ago, I was sitting at the rough cement table in our little garden with some friends. One was my former roommate here in this house, who had since headed back to the States and was now visiting Costa Rica once more. She posed an interesting question over our beers: what is it, exactly, that makes life in Costa Rica so much more relaxed than life back home? “When I lived here, I wasn’t lying on the beach all day,” she pointed out. “I had a demanding job and worked long hours, just as I do in the States. My relative income was fairly similar, as were my social and family obligations. This city is noisier and more crowded that my city back home. What is it, then? What is it about Costa Rica that makes life calmer?”

I thought about this for a long time. I think of it again every time a new study comes out saying that Costa Rica is the happiest country on earth, or the second happiest, or 93.2% happy, or what have you – an honor that many people I know receive with a certain bemusement as they battle traffic, or wait in long lines, or pick their way through oceans of litter on a morning walk. Like my friend, I, too, have worked like a donkey (as Spanish would have it) for most of my years in this country, logging my share of 14-hour days under fluorescent lights. As a reporter, and then working in government, I have seen aspects of Costa Rica that are unflattering, exasperating, and downright infuriating. But there is an underlying cheerfulness among the people here that seems to survive most any setback or annoyance, an unruffled approach to life that does seem rather mysterious, and that I think has gradually worked its way into my bones over the years. What’s in the water?

I have finally come to a conclusion that is completely anticlimactic, like most of life’s secrets. I believe that Costa Ricans, or many of them anyway, have a more peaceful life simply because they prioritize that. They put a higher premium on well-being and tranquility than some other societies do. I can’t tell you how many times over the years I have said some version of this: “Oh, my God, I’m twenty minutes away and the place closes in 15 and it’s pouring rain and my heel is broken and if I don’t turn the thing in today my life is over, can you lend me your umbrella, oh, never mind, I’ll just get wet.” And my Costa Rican colleague, acquaintance, husband or other family member has said some version of: “OR, you could sit down for just a minute and have a cafecito, and wait for the rain to subside, and take a few deep breaths, and let’s take a look at that shoe.” It’s as if the entire population, male and female, comes with a built-in maternal instinct. Calm down, dear. Let’s figure this out.

But what if I don’t get the thing to the place and the deadline lapses and I can’t fix my shoe? Well, then, hagamos un macgyver.
That’s right – MacGyver, the TV icon who could disarm a bomb with (insert random ingredients here, such as a tube of Pringles and a Nair facial wax strip), is deeply beloved in Costa Rica and has become a part of daily language. Stuck in traffic? Hagamos un macgyver and we’ll go the wrong way down this unused one-way street. Oops… the one-way street wasn’t unused, but rather very much used by a large and uncompromising 18-wheeler? Hagamos un macgyver, otherwise known as a lightning-quick U-turn up on the curb and through part of that guy’s garage. Something, anything at all really, is wrong with your car or home? There is a MacGyver to be done.

We took the train home one night from the National Stadium after a game, and got off near the university for a nightcap. It was a good thing we’d planned to do that, because when we alighted we saw that our train might not be going any further anyway: some yahoo had parked right across the tracks. Now, I have never parked across train tracks in a major U.S. city, but I assume it would not end well. Either the train would plow right over it, or you’d get arrested and fined a zillion dollars, or both. But this was Costa Rica, and here was the car, and a train far too slow and clunky to pulverize it, and lots of people waiting to get home, and no apparent solution in sight.

Then the call went up: Hagamos un MacGyver. A dozen guys got off the train and started bouncing the car up and down, up and down, until it bounced so merrily that they were able to cajole it  right off the tracks, as a happy crowd gathered around to watch. Five minutes later, the car was moved, the train lumbered forward, and all was well. This would never have occurred to me. I laughed out loud.

What on earth is my point? I think that the reason we foreigners find life in Costa Rica to be saner and calmer than it was elsewhere is that we are surrounded by a cheerful, no-nonsense pragmatism and a belief that most things just aren’t worth getting your panties in a twist or missing your afternoon coffee or going out in a downpour. When your boss and coworkers and all others around you encourage you to take it easy on yourself, your Puritan attitude starts to lose its sternness. I can imagine the many unbelievably high-achieving Costa Ricans I know saying, Ahhhh, but this nonchalance is also what keeps us from achieving so many things as a nation! This acceptance of mediocrity and procrastination has held our society back in myriad ways! Which is also right, and only goes to show that, for a nation as for an individual, the worst qualities are often the best ones as well, and the best are also the worst.

I wouldn’t wish for my daughter a life free of hard work and stress – and I don’t know anyone here who has such a life anyway, since some of the happiest Costa Ricans I know are the ones shouldering heavy burdens of work and even tragedy. I hope that, to paraphrase Gene Robinson, she’ll one day be blessed with the tears, anger and discomfort one needs to feel in order to make a difference in the world .I hope she will worry about things that matter. I hope she’ll get her homework in on time, most days. But I’m glad she’s also surrounded by a nation of mothers who’ll urge her to take it easy and value her own tranquility. May Costa Rica give her a merry, macgyver-pulling soul.

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3 thoughts on “The Real Secret of the World’s Happiest Country: MacGyver

  1. I love this: “OR, you could sit down for just a minute and have a cafecito, and wait for the rain to subside, and take a few deep breaths, and let’s take a look at that shoe.” It’s as if the entire population, male and female, comes with a built-in maternal instinct. Calm down, dear. Let’s figure this out.

    So typically Costa Rican.

    I teach yoga in a style that uses a lot of props and often reference MacGyver. The Ticos would totally get that! 😉

    Cheers. Great blog.

  2. Pingback: When You Are Engulfed in Fruit Juice* (macgyver, part II) | The Dictionary of You

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